Coping with miscarriage

Alex
I *officially* found out I was pregnant on Monday. I'd had a feeling I was pregnant for a few weeks but waited to take a test until after I missed my period. And then I promptly miscarried this Friday/Saturday. I'm absolutely devastated. I feel like I shouldn't be so upset over something I only knew I had for a few days, but I can't deal. I have no one to talk to besides my fiancé because we obviously didn't tell anybody yet. And he doesn't understand and won't talk about it until we go see our actual Doctor instead of the Doctor at the ER. For those of you who have had to handle this unfortunate situation, how did you cope? Any advice? 😔