Would you be mad ?

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So me and one of my best friends are both pregnant, I'm farther along then her she just found out the sex of her baby and she knew for 3 days but the day of my baby shower she decided she was going to tell everyone the sex... Am I wrong for getting mad? I feel like my baby shower day is supposed to be about me and my baby and feel as if she wanted to make it all about her. Could just be my hormones making me a little more sensitive. This happened a week ago and me and her still aren't talking. What is your ladies opinions on this?

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That was rude of her.

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I would be pissed.

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I'd be mad too. Wtf kind of thing is that to do to someone? I know my bff would never do nothing like that to me, heck even my just regular friends wouldn't do that. It's common courtesy.

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I would be upset. It's your baby shower not her gender reveal

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I'd be mad too.

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Your friend sounds like an attention whore. Your aren't over reacting at all. Maybe she's feeling insecure about her pregnancy idk but try to talk it out. If she's just the type of person to always one up you or needs to be center of attention find a new BFF.

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I would be pissed and tell her she shoulda have announced that at her baby shower not yours. And emphasize it. She'll get it.

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It wasn't your gender reveal. I feel that ppl probably kept asking her if she knew what the sex was.

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I'd definitely be upset about it. She knew what she was doing. Why wait 3 days then? It was your day and your moment...she will have hers soon enough where she could yap about her pregnancy all she wants.

Last year I was preg with a baby girl (unfortunately we lost her a couple months later into the preg)....anyway at the time I was preg I attended my sis bday party and at the time no one knew about the pregnancy. I waited until after her bday party to announce to everyone. I didn't feel it was right of me or appropriate to make the moment about me. It's just being considerate of the other person and letting them have their moment. Jeez! It's not that hard to understand.

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Ya she should have waited until her baby shower to tell everyone, even if she knew.

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