I know you mean well, but please stop asking me if i'm okay.

I know that my family & close friends mean well, but I just wish they would stop asking me if I was okay. I have endured 2 miscarriages in the past 5 months. The first one I made it about a month, the 2nd I made it 9wks, the baby made it 6 & it was only this past Monday. Am I wrong that I hate being asked if I am okay? These miscarriages break me down. Sometimes I am okay to talk about them, but if I don't bring it up first, I don't want to talk about it. I know they ask out of love for me & my child that should have been. Sometimes talking about it is a release, other times I want to ignore it as if it didn't happen. Am I wrong for getting so frustrated about it sometimes? I have decided to soon (probably my birthday in May) get the 'birth flowers' (June/Rose & October/Merigold) tattooed to be since they will always be a part of me. My boyfriend seems like he doesn't want me to because he doesn't want me to dwell on it. Does anyone think it's weird? He doesn't talk about the losses a lot with me, mainly because I think he tries to be so strong for me.