I am confused about my gender of my baby I went March 15 and I was 19.weeks & 2 days. I went in for my sono/anatomy scan & ps. the anatomy scan takes a long time. I didn't mind it. BUT when she was showing us our baby she didn't say look this is what I see for the genitals. We told her 8 times & believe me she even knew we wanted to know the gender because she kept repeating it. BUT not once told us what it was . Not even (a) sorry I couldn't see it because your baby does move a lot or (b) it's looks like 50% blah blah.

I know they can't tell you 100% but yeah. I told her I was having a gender reveal party for my family and if I can have a letter or pix saying what it is and she's like oh well I can't do that I can only give you the picture but with nothing on it and I said well how will someone (party city for my gender balloon ) determine what it is? .(Its not like everyday people can look and tell ) and I don't know why I didn't say here well you didn't even tell me what it is . I thought this was so odd but I didn't say anything. So she says well you know the saying three lines girl & turtle boy . So we were in the hallway trying to determine our gender even though we are not experienced with it & it wasnt a good picture . So I'm just confused it looked like a girl to me but I could be wrong. No professional hasn't told me what it was and when I see my obgyn I am going to tell her what happened so I can hopefully get some answers. I just feel so confused. I am not mad at her. But I want a professional to tell me what they see. This is my first child. I'm 20 weeks now & should be 22 when I see my dr. (After Easter ). I don't have the gender picture because my mom has them because she was trying to look at it too & she was confused. And she lives far so I can't post a pic to see what you guys think . It just sucks .