Conflicted

We just lost our baby on Thursday. My husbands birthday. We were six weeks. I know it was early, but I still feel so empty. I don't like the comments I am getting of "at least your weren't that far along" and "at least you know you can get pregnant." I know people are just trying to help and be kind - but it doesn't help that I feel like I failed my body. It was our first pregnancy and I feel like it was my fault. What if I was thinner? What if I had gotten into the doctor sooner? It's just really hard. And it also doesn't help when I hear "you're more fertile after a miscarriage, so you can try again." ---- that doesn't help me. I don't know, maybe I am overreacting. Any advice on how to move on? I'm so conflicted.