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I keep justifying my relationship with my boyfriend I want to break up with him but I don't wanna be alone and I've spent 4.5 years building this relationship. I love him but he's not the issue.. His family is.. I'm constantly debating with myself is it worth being his gf if I dislike his family.. Cause if we get married I'm basically marrying them too. I've weighed the pros and cons and it always ends with me either miserable in my relationship or miserable single.. Ugh I love him but I hate them. He mentioned he'd want our children around them and all but I can't stomach the notion of my future kids around people "mommy" hates.

And for the record he knows I don't like his family And I have valid reasons behind disliking them which he's aware of and sympathizes with me on it. I just hate that they always exclude me like I'm not even there.

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