Does it hurt??😓

Ok so im still young and dont plan on having sex with anyone till im married.(btw im single and in 7th grade)But ive read many stories about women who lost their virginity and it hurt really bad and some not much and others who didn't hurt at all.Im curious and whant to know how to make not hurt or hurt just a little for my first time.It scares me and idw to have sex cuz of it😓Any advice?I dont want my wedding night getting ruined cuz of the pain.Ik im still young to be thinking about this but im very scared and want to know!😩😩
Thanks!🙂