I really fucking hate it when my husband and mother in law tell me what they would do in certain situations with my daughter as if they know more! Meanwhile my MIL let a bunch of abusive drug addicts raise them and then abandoned her children when they were 11 and 13 cause she decided to go on a bank robbing spree (she opened fake accounts, cashed fake checks and ran off with the money up and down the coast) and sold crushed up aspirins as cocaine to truck drivers!