So, I've been on the pill for several years now and am sick and tired of not feeling myself and being on an emotional anxiety drive roller coaster. I stumbled upon FAM and picked up "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" to start learning more about it. I've also looked in the Lady Comp which btw - is way too expensive! But anyway, I want to get off the pill and start charting but, I'm just petrified of getting pregnant and not really knowing or understanding my fertile days - even after reading the book.

What are your experiences with FAM if you have been practicing it? How do you deal with uncertainty if any. 

I know that it'll take a few months for me to have a regular cycle so, I plan on using condoms until then but, I would like to be able to share an intimate moment with my partner without and condom and feel confident in not getting pregnant if that makes sense. - sorry if this post has been all over the place I feel like that is how my mind has been lately haha!

Thank you all so much!