Anal: condom or no condom?

Question

My boyfriend just asked if we could give anal a try I said sure why not. Then he asked if we should use a condom.  We don't use a condom during vaginal sex but should we for anal? Neither of us cheat and neither of us have diseases. So should we or will it be okay without a condom?

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Anal is not something you just do spur of the moment one night. If he just tries to shove it in, it's going to hurt, a lot. You need to work your way up to it and prepare yourself.

As for using a condom I would recommend it for two reasons
1. That way you don't have to be self conscious about messes
2. If you want to switch back to vaginal he can just take the condom off. Otherwise he has to go wash his dick or you could get infected.

If you're not on some form of birth control you should really be using a condom, regardless of how clean you are.

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I've never used a condom just make sure you have lube though. Water based is best. And a tip. Stay relaxed as possible.

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We hate condoms, but I must say, after he got epididymis (an infection in his balls from bacteria getting into his pee hole. Bacteria from my butt.) I do feel more comfortable using them for that.

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poop is a real issue. even when you think there's nothing, there's something.

unless he wants a UTI, feel free to go raw :^)

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I never do with my boyfriend. I do have some advice for you though...

1. MAKE SURE you've gone to the bathroom within the last 12 hours...to avoid messes. Also, if you go to the bathroom close to the time you plan on doing it you might want to use an enema or douche just in case but normally I don't have to.

2. There's no such thing 	as too much lube when it comes to butt-love.

3. Remember to 	RELAX!!! I've come to really enjoy anal sex now that I've learned to relax. If you tense up and stuff it'll be uncomfortable, painful, and awkward. If you just relax though it can be really amazing!

This is all from personal experience of course but I have anal sex a lot and really do enjoy it so hopefully something I said helps you to also. Have fun!!!

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Use an enema first to clean out your butt. Then always use a condom. Don't switch from anal sex to vaginal sex without removing or replacing the condom.

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Condom, for sure!

Anal: condom or no condom?

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