Husband doesn't last long!!

I don't know what it is, but my husband maybe last 10 minutes during sex and that's it!! That's why he has to play with me for a while before we do it or he won't last long at all. Are in of your ladies in the same boat to?? My ex's in the past would last long, but my husband for 3 years doesn't no matter how often we do it.. not sure if it's a good thing or bad..