Should I be upset?

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My SO doesn't like me coming out with him but he looks more than happy that my best friend is with them. I don't want to be petty and mention anything I just want a second opinion. Whenever I'm out I do my own thing just drink and dance with my friends, I tell him if I go to another club and ask if he's coming. Him on the other hand talks to every girl going especially his ex's!! He gives me attitude and if I confront him he gets his friends involved who start callin me a c*unt and things when they haven't met me. I trust my best friend with absolutely everything. I could send them off to a desert for two weeks and guarantee they would not end up doing anything together. But why would he be so happy shes around? I guess it hurts abit because he's never that happy when I'm around. Doesn't make sense

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Sounds like he shouldn't be your boyfriend anymore honestly.

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I wouldn't trust it.. If shes your best friend then why would she go hang out w him if he didnt want you there? Why isn't she hanging out with you? Sounds like he wants to be around other females and not you. It sucks but you deserve better. Find someone who respects you.

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Good lord what are you sticking around for? How many more shitty things does he have to do for you to realize he needs to go? None of the things you mentioned are okay for him to do. No excuses. Break up with him and don't turn back.

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Sorry for you. I would leafe him. Sounds he likes your friend - not you. You deserve better. Find a new boyfriend who realy loves you!

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I trusted my best friend like that before and then when my husband and I started having trouble, she started calling and texting him when she had never done that for 8 years. She is no longer my friend....him on the other hand. He sounds like an ass. It wouldn't be me he was treating like that.

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Guys are idiots and rarely realize what they do...and some take for granted the great thing they have in front of them...some times the thing to do is step back and stop trying to make them happy...and make you happy...and you may realize your happiness is better full filled without them...life is too short hun....guys are a different breed for real...and they think we are complicated lol

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Your boyfriend sounds like my ex boyfriend of 7 years. A fucking piece of shit. He treated me exactly like that. You will finally come to a point were you won't give a shit anymore. There r a lot better guys out there. It makes me sick to think I cried and wasted so many years on someone that mentally abused me. It hurts like hell I don't know why I didn't believe I was worth more. I hope you open your eyes n dump his dumbass. It's hard but life becomes easier n you will feel 100000% better about yourself to😄 as for your friend ask. Her straight up be blunt.

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Your boyfriend sounds childish and rude!

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No one should be treated like that. He's acting like you're an embarrassment and that's not cool. I've been treated like that before, and that's when you walk away because he's a piece of crap.

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Seriously..... You already know this is all wrong!!!!
He is a cheater and sounds like a butt whole!  I would never stick around to be abused.  He is verbally abusing you!!  Google emotional abuse.  Physically is next!  What then?!  What are you waiting on black and blues!??  I was in one it starts off great then he starts calling you makes here and there... You make excuses like, "it's not all the time." He is teaching you how to take his abuse!  Stop! Stop learning how to live with being abused!  
You deserve the Prince!  Or you Knight in shinning armour.  They exist!! I have up hope a long time ago... Joined a church built a relationship with God and realized Howe bad things were.  I left my abusive husband.... Get out now! Don't look back! Change your phone number and just move on before it is to late.  And if you need support I'm here!

Should I be upset?

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