Little bit of a rant

Brianna
It's so frustrating that some other moms feel like they are just inherently better. Better at being pregnant, better at being a mom blah blah. Why can't everyone just support each other ?
I found out I'm having a cesarean on April 8th because my girl is in a bum down breech position. After considering all options with my doctor we decided that a cesarean would be the safest option for both myself and the baby..
Yet when people find out they have nothing positive to say. It seems like all I'm hearing is how painful c sections are and how I wont bond the same or they try and tell me to see if there's another delivery option. 
Why try and freak me out over a decision that was made in mine and my babies best interest? 
Like do people even think before they talk ?
Cause yeah I'm totally having a c section because I thought it would be way more fun than a vaginal delivery.
So frustrating ! 😡