Okay seriously....

So I completely skipped my period this month. Yes I am sexually active but we are very safe and use condoms. He always checks for rips and sometimes doesn't even finish (safety or he just gets tired after I've gotten off.) I know there is always a slight risk but I just can't believe I'd be pregnant. This has been the most stressful month I've ever had so I understand why I could've skipped a period, but I am showing pregnancy symptoms. My nipples are very sore and I'm bloated like 24/7 but these are also pre-period symptoms. So here's the kicker, I took two tests when I was late by 8 days and they both were very obvious negatives with no faint lines or anything. So could I be pregnant? (I add anon because I have family on this app)