Dialated and or effaced?

Hey ladies... how dialated are you? What about effaced? How long have you been that way?... last weeks check up my doctor said i was a centimeter and a half but still very long so i'm assuming not effaced at all. But i have a feeling i have progressed effacing considerably which kind of freaked me out... could we be that close or have any of you been effaced for a considerable amount of time? Next appointment isnt til monday and im feeling anxious.