Am i not good enough?!?!

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My SO and I were having sex. I thought things were going great and then I hear this moaning coming from somewhere and apparently while behind me is watching porn.   I mean I know I'm fat and pregnant and probably not attractive anymore but it really killed my mood. Like I'm not good enough or sexy enough for him. And right away he came and was done.  I couldn't even enjoy sex or reach an orgasm because of this.    I feel like I'm not good enough now  :/ I don't know how to tell him without making him feel bad

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He was watching porn whilst having sex with you?!? I'd be furious!

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Damn. That's messed up. I mean if my husband is having a hard time cumming for whatever reason (mainly whiskey dick lol) I'll offer to pop up some porn on my iPad to help. But if I didn't offer, or he didn't even ask and we were in the middle of doing it and he grabbed his phone was was watching porn while fuckin me... God I would explode of rage! So much steam would come out of my ears that it'd melt his dick off. 😂

No but seriously- you need to tell your husband straight up that that's unacceptable and he needs to never do that again. If he doesn't understand why, then call out the name of a hot male celebrity next time you guys have sex. See how he Likes feeling useless and disrespected.

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I personally would have flipped out on him. How disrespectful. Like I'm seriously mad for you right now. I would definitely bring it up to him and don't worry about hurting his feelings because he was way out of line with that. 
Good luck.

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I would of donkey kicked his balls! Your husband is supposed to make you feel sexy and beautiful especially while carrying his child!

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More porn talk. This is becoming an epidemic. Lol.

Be honest. Tell him you feel intimidated that he's watching porn and you feel disrespected. Figure out what makes you feel hurt and discuss those things. Tell him you feel like you're not good enough for him and you thought he would find you sexy since your carrying his child and all. Just be honest about your feelings. If he feels bad then so be it. Maybe he'll feel bad to the point he doesn't do it again.

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You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and tell the truth. The truth might hurt, just like it hurt you but I would rather be hurt by the truth and comforted with a lie.

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I would of cut his damn dick. What an asshole he is for watching porn while having sex with you

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I would have detached his penis from his body. That is beyond disrespectful! There is a difference between watching porn together and getting off on it together but that was totally not the case here.

Wow, no I would have flipped epically.

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I'm against porn in my relationship because it's ruining it. He lies and hides it, and goes behind my back, now he won't touch me, and doesn't even get hard when I decide to jump in the shower with him or try to seduce him. Nothing I do arouses him when it comes to me. Last night we tried to have sex and he couldn't even finish, but he could finish to porn without a problem. I'm so hurt and feel disgusting with myself. Our relationship is almost over because of it. He isn't sexually attracted to me anymore and can't get off to just me. I completely understand when you say you don't feel good enough, because I feel the same. He admitted that it's a problem, and we are going to go to therapy.

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I would be livid!! Like oh no don't worry about me carrying our child, just worry about yourself and how you for some reason can't get off to just me. That's so disrespectful! If it were me i wouldve been like "oh well i guess you dont need me then, have fun having sex with a screen"

Am i not good enough?!?!

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