So any ladies here have an ectopic pregnancy with no surgey have sex before the 5 wks and just not let your man cum in you and everything be ok? I have not had sex since I found out I was pregnant February 29th and had the medical shot for my ectopic last week. I really want/need to have sex. I'll wait if need be But I did read on line that you can have sex just not to ejaculate inside? Just wondering. I am not bleeding Or any thing.