getting frustrated.

Vicky
Hi everyone think I'm just ranting because I'm so frustrated. ...just wondering if anyone else has had an experience like mine. I'm 29 have a 3 year old son, came off birth control in November to ttc no2..had a withdrawal bleed in december. ..second period 34 days later in January.....3rd period 44 days later in February. I'm currently into day 42 of this cycle 😢 I've been trying so hard to conceive I tested at 34 days and was a BFN so not tested since but I feel awful!!! I'm so tired, I'm swollen around my stomach...I keep feeling sick.....heartburn is a killer....One day I can't go the loo the next day I can't get off lol...my boobs r bigger and heavier but not painful but my nippes r a dark purple sort of colour. and I'm weeing more. does anyone have any thoughts??Sorry about the long post, I just don't know if I should test again I'm sick of being disappointed. thanks