Ok..so me and my SO other have been together for almost 3 years. He hasn't met my dad and he says he wants to marry me but won't if he can't meet my dad. And the thing about my dad is he doesn't like anyone...he doesn't even like his own family. He is a very very difficult and stubborn person. And my SO is hell bent on meeting him. I told my dad they need to meet but he won't budge be doesn't even want to talk to him on the phone. I'm just frustrated by the entire situation but o guess it is what it is...