Me and my husband are getting a divorce, we have been together for 2 years and married for 1 year. I haven't been happy for months and on new years he punched me after he got home from the bar. I always new he had a drinking problem but I didn't know how bad he could get. I am very happy/sad this is happening to me I never thought it would. I've always had horrible relationships and when I found him I thought I could finally be happy for once. But I have been talking to this guy for 9 years over the internet and I finally got to meet him, and we clicked so well. My questions is how soon is to soon to try and be happy again? Me and this guy have always had a connection we just never had the chance to meet now that I have it feels like we have been together for years.