Yesterday I lost my virginity to my boyfriend (we used a condom), I was scared and all cause it was going to hurt..but it didn't hurt at all..I didn't even feel it, at points I did (it felt like the feeling you get when you just finished peeing after a long time) but I was kind of disappointed because I can't even orgasm I've always had to fake them. I thought having sex would make me orgasm but it didn't.. My first time Having sex literally felt like nothing, I have no clue if that's normal, is it?