My husband and I have been together 10 years.. married 6. He used to be romantic. He would cuddle, hold hands, kiss, etc... he was always capable of "turning me on" and never struggled in the bedroom. Lately it's been hit and miss. The romance seems to be dead. He puts no thought into special occasions anymore and could go days without touching me and be ok with it. He says I'm too hard to turn on and doesn't care to try. I feel so disconnected from him even when i try to be romantic towards him. What is happening? Does everything just die down after 10 years? Or is this just the beginning of a dead relationship?