Tanning

Carlea
So I'm a fare skimmed red head who has always wanted to be tan because I thought being pale was ugly, I'm now 19 and I hate shaving let alone trying to build a natural looking tan from foams and lotions and sprays and don't like the idea of a tanning bed since I recently lost an aunt to melenoma. So what do you guys think what looks better? Tan or Pale