What should I do?

Question

Okay so a while back, I was with this ( mainly just sending nudes) guy for three months last year and then he got into a relationship in November. Then in December, he started asking me for pics again and I kept telling him no. He did this on and off for a bit. Then early March, he asked again and I gave in and sent him a few pics. He deleted me on snapchat and told me we shouldn't do it again and he felt awful because he treated me that way. The few people I've told have told me to tell his girlfriend. I don't know her very well and have only met her a few times. I'm kind of thinking that it's not my relationship so I shouldn't intervene but idk. What do you guys think?

Also listen, if you're gonna tell me it was a shitty thing to do, I know that. I was just thinking about myself and how much I loved him in that moment that I didn't bother thinking about her.

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Let me tell you straight up ive been in your position SO many times and its not you who's the shitty one. Yes there may be some on your part but he SHOULD NOT be asking you for nudes while he is in a relationship with another girl. That is wrong in so many ways in his part. Do whatever you feel is necessary. Lots of guys are fuckboys. And we're just naive. Please dont ever "love" a guy who is just hitting you up for nudes. Thats not what a real man does. Ive learned that now and my current boyfriend has taught me what real love is and you deserve to be with someone who is interested in more than just your body. You are worth way more than that.

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I would tell her. Girls need to stick up for each other and warn each other about guys that don't deserve us.

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I don't blame you. I blame the shitty guy who knows he has a girlfriend and is still asking for nude pics. It's like when people cheat: I don't blame the person who was cheated with, I blame the person who cheated. It's a hard situation though. Maybe you should put yourself in her shoes and ask yourself what would you want if you had a boyfriend and this situation happened. Would you want the random girl to come and tell you? I think maybe you should talk to the boy and tell him that he needs to tell her or you will.

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