Oral sex

Diana
Should I be mad at my husband because of the fact that he is the only one getting pleased? What should I do? 
 He is too damn lazy and doesn't want to go down on me or suck on my nipples. I can't even touch my clit while we have sex. I always give him head and do whatever he asks of me to make him happy, but if I ever ask him to do anything besides fuck me he makes an excuse not to do it. I love having an orgasm from stimulating my clit. And unfortunately he doesn't care if I come or not.