Questioning myself

Rae • 14/pansexual/gender fluid
Hello, so for about 2 years I've felt like wanting to be a boy ... I've talked to my counselor and he said I could be bigender, I want to be a boy but my body is to girly with big hips and small waist ... So I want to be a girl for that quality. I'm just so confused with myself and idk what to do! Is there something I can do to help me figure myself out?
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Meditate on it for a while, or try one day going around fully thinking about yourself as a boy, and another as a girl, and whichever other genders you wanna try out. See what "feels right" and what "feels wrong". And go from there. It's also ok to be a boy with" girly" hips. It's just about what feels the best for you. If some days some genders feel right and the same genders feel wrong another day, you might be fluid or bigender or trigender.

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It's okay to change labels by the way. You might not know for sure now and that's fine, you could go through many different labels for your gender before you find one that feels right (or maybe you won't need one at all), just give yourself time to test the waters and experiment a little.

Av

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theres SO MANY ways to identify gender! agender, bigender, gender fluid, male, female, etc etc etc