What's was your cm /symptoms before your BFP !!! (Losing hope 😔) need Glow vibes

So my period is due in one or two days and my cm dry on and off and then today wiped and I had clearly stretching eggy I guess discharge it a lot though , then maybe the day before yesterday I had a blob in my underwear like a booger . I've tested at 9DPO AND 10 and BFN . I've been cramping for two weeks straight since ovulation which is not normal for me some days more intense then others , nauseated , hear flashes , headaches and then my 14 month has started back trying to nurse. I had a dream about my mother in law the other day and in the dream I was pregnant and she was with me (she passed last year) . The two test I took from the $ tree I could see the second line where it should be positive but it was white .