Lead on by kindness?

Question

I don't completely understand this myself but, I apparently lead on guys unintentionally. I'm just being nice to the guy, casual talk and basic interaction, but some of my friends say I'm leading them on. Care to add your thoughts as to what you see leading on as?

Answer

I don't see that as leading guys on but I have heard the same thing. Also, laughing at a guys joke is supposedly considered to be flirty. I laugh at everything. I think everything is funny and I actually see the jokes being played out in my head and it makes me laugh. But one of my good guy friends told me that leads guys on. Also talking like a guy would, I've been told, leads guys on. If I talk about how hot a girl is to s guy, my guy friend told me that guys take that as flirting too... 😒 apparently every time I open my mouth, I'm being a huge flirt... When in reality, I'm talking to them the same way I talk to girl friends. 😳 whatever.

Answer

Just because you are kind to a guy doesn't mean they are entitled to your body or your romantic feelings. Being kind doesn't even man you are interested in someone in a romantic way.

If being kind is leading people on, I must be the biggest piece of shit ever.