What the actual fuck! 😳

Question

So, I don't even know what to do, what to say, I just don't know. I don't even know where to post about this or who to talk to this about...

So I wanted to get photos off my boyfriends phone to add to the ever growing collection of photos I have of our daughter. So as I'm doing that, I get snoopy and look at recently deleted photos... Well as usual there are deleted photos of our friends who over flow us with selfies on our phones and mistake blacked out photos, but then I come across this video, and it's of him welll....how do I put this lightly? Eh... Climaxing onto his own chest.. We have sex, we have done everything in and out of the book, our sex life isn't dull or non existent... But I don't even know how to react to this... It's something I never saw before, and in the back of my head I feel like it was sent to another female and then deleted. I don't know? Like how do I bring this up to him? Do I even bring it up? What would you do if you saw a hidden sexual video or picture on your mans phone? Like..? Fuck 😞😒😒

Answer

Don't look if you aren't ready for what you find , you are in the wrong for snooping

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I'd say give him the benefit of the doubt for now. I mean he might have recorded it because he was curious of what it would look like in video or he was going to send it to you. You never know. But if it bothers you that much, and you're okay with owning up to snooping, ask him about it. Not in a angry way just have a conversation about it. Like I said you could be upset over nothing. I'm only saying this because I've been In the same boat and it turned out harmless.