(NEW HERE) When is it going to happen😢

Me and my husband have been trying for 3 1/2years to get pregnant. But nothing. iv just had a ultrasound in my ovaries and they are fine im at the doctors on friday for fertility blood tests and my husband is going to do a sample on tuesday. Aparently by glow af is due today but still nothing. My right breast is killing me. Bit bloated and constipated and feel a bit sicky.