How to know if guys are using you?

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So I have been seeing this guy for a little while and we arnt officially dating nothing is official I guess but we do see eachother and Hook up and I have been used before by my last boyfriend so I'm being very careful with what I do with this guy just so I don't make the same mistake again but things got a bit sus, he told me he loved me... But he only seems like he wants to talk to me when he's horny, other times he gets bored and stops Talking or will just ignore me, he always randomly grabs my ass and when I asked him why he said it was so everyone knew you were my girl but ... I'm not I guess, I just don't know if this is different or if I'm over thinking it

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Ha. Does he...
1) like your Instagram posts (3 at a time)
2) text/call you only after dark?
3) go home straight after sex?
4) doesn't invite you places except to hook up
5) kiss you only when it's leading to sex?
6) use his phone when he's with you?
7) only compliment your looks and not personality?

If you answered yes to majority of these, I'd  say he's using you. Don't take my word for it obviously, these are just the obvious signs to me and I'm speaking from experience.

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Sounds like he's using you. But maybe you should confront him first to see his response

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I would say to end things. Had the same situation. He only wanted to come over or hang out when he wanted to, never when I missed him. And he always only wanted to hook up and always said he was gonna take me out, but never did

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Sounds to me like you already know the answer. You said he only talks to you when he's horny. So there's your answer 😕