So my so asked me to get an abortion because he's not ready to be a dad. He says it will ruin his life. He hasn't accepted the fact that he's going to be a dad. He says that his family won't accept it and his mom will be very disappointed because we are not married. We are both in our mid 30s and both have good jobs. I've told him that I do not believe in abortions and I won't be getting one.