Dr vent

I do like my dr but sometimes he really can be pretty heartless and frustrating. The problem is, he has been my dr through a few down there procedures and my last 2 miscarriages and I feel like I should keep him. However..his comments. Ugh. My last miscarriage he told me to stop thinking of a positive prego test as a baby, to think of it as a possibility until 12 weeks. Umm impossible. Then a few weeks ago at my ultrasound he barely looked and told me it was an empty sac..then he saw it wasnt. Wtf. Then I just emailed him to ask if I needed bloodwork before my appt thurs. And he said not to worry about bloodwork until I actually have a viable baby. I know he doesn't want to get my hopes up but there's a happy medium between showing some positivity and being a dick lol