So I'm 18 and got pregnant a month before my bday and I'm 35 weeks now. I moved in with my bf (who was previously my best friend for 3 years) on my 18th birthday and we've been loving together for about 7 months now. He gets social security (750$ but 400 goes to rent) and has been since he was 16(now 21) for PTSD. We used to smoke weed and drink occasionally and just do whatever we wanted really. Now that we love together and I'm pregnant he basically still does all of that and I'm here always worrying about what needs to be done. He has 350$ to play with every month and it all goes to weed, cigarettes and video games.

Well my+biggest problem here is envy. We also live with his brother who thinks that my bf is just getting it all out of his system now before the baby comes But it's making me SO upset that he plans on growing the fuck up AFTER the baby arrives. I feel that he's been so confortable with getting social security that it's hard to jump into a job. He's also so lazy. He doesn't do anything but play video games almost all day. I do think he will change when the baby comes But it shouldn't have to be that way. Get your shit together now. I envy that he can smoke and calm his nerves and feel good and I sit here stressed all the time and he "doesn't know how to help me"