possible condom failure??

so I am on the birth control pill for just about 3 months now, I've missed one pill ever, and it was the last Friday. (I took it 9 hours late) and we also used a condom. but I couldn't tell if the condom had leaked. there was a lot of stuff in the condom but there was still some white stuff near the base. it could've just been from me. but I get so paranoid, so I'm sorry if I seem crazy lol.

do you guys think I'm safe?