You didn't raise him at all

My mother in law abandoned my husband at the age of 5. Now everytime he does something, like grown men do, she has to put her input. He curses, drinks, gets tattoos, drives fast, anything she says, "don't do that. Didn't I raise you better?" No you didn't raise him at all!!! He is grown now and can do what he wants! If he should be worried about what anyone thinks it should be me not you! My husband is a wonderful kind person unlike her. He works so hard and loves our son unconditionally. She's just a manipulator!