BDSM??

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How do I tell my boyfriend I want to try and get more into BDSM? I'm generally a pretty open person about what I want during sex, but I'm not sure how to bring up wanting to try rope play and be more submissive.

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Tell him you had a dream with it and you woke up super turned on.

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Start to introduce a little to him and see how he reacts. If you are more into being the sub tell him to be rough and demanding with you and if it's the other way around then swap it. But start small.

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You just tell him... You're an adult, and if that's what you are interested in, then telling him shouldn't be a big deal. Also, you could ask him to open up about his fantasies. And then open up about yours.

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Just whip out the ropes lol

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Play that Rihanna song

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I usually introduce it to people by getting them to be a bit rough with me during foreplay and see how they react. But it's really about being fairly open and talking about it all. Bdsm is best when everyone involved is safe and aware of what could happen and is all about communication.

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Just tell him.  Most guys already think of things like this but never do it because they don't know how their girlfriend/wife would react.  I just talked to my husband about this.   He's already super dominant during sex and was really turned on by the idea of tying me up. I say go for it and tell him what you want.

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It wasn't until years into our relationship I realized I was into it. I write in my spare time and love to write erotic novels so I researched it to hell and back. I attempted to make it a part of our sex life by talking to him about it. I bought a blindfold, some restraints, and got him into spanking me. He's not dominant by nature and I can tell when he tries he is completely out of his element and doesn't really want to. On special occasions he might time me up or blindfold me but that's about it. I'm fine with it. I won't make him do something that bothers him. He does like to spank me and that's a usual occurrence. At 35 weeks pregnant, he won't do it to me anymore until after the baby comes because it freaks him out 😂 Just communicate with each other.

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Do you guys talk about sex often? I find a good way to start the conversation is to ask him about his interests/fantasies and then bring up some of your own! Who knows you may even be on the same page already!

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