Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years now and in the second year of us dating, he was paralyzed from the waist down. He is such a wonderful man and we've had our ups and downs, but now that I'm 18 I'm looking to be more intimate with him. He and I have done everything possible, but haven't had sex because frankly we don't know how to. I love him so much and know how hard it is for him to talk about this, but I want to take everything to the next level.