So hubby and i just moved into an apartment and been here two going on three months. We decided it was time to start our own family and well figure out the struggles as we go. Ppl say your NEVER ready anyway.. so we ttc during my fertile week every day and financially things took a turn for the worst. We can't afford our apt because of other bills Thats been added and both our cars are breaking down and we cant afford to fix them. It just seems like we had it under control untill this past week we realized our apt is toi much

Luckily enough.. Kinda.. His parents have a p.o.s. travel trailer in their yard with water ac electric that we can stayin for free. So we figure live shitty like thus for a month or so till we find a cheaper home. Then someone told me sometimes God has to shove you out the door so you can see a new door. And my SO and currently live in AZ and or whole families are out here but our hearts want to start new in Virginia. So weve been thinking why not stay rent free for a year or so ( he just got an assistant manager position at his job and for him to transfer he has to ne in position for a year) and safe up a couple grand so we can move across country. Maybe this is "the door" im supposed to go to or open?but then again.. Wed be living in his parents back yard which is really crappyand embarrassing. Oh and im in the tww period now :( and it would be terrible if i was pg.. Even though we want one so bad. It is terrible timing. On everything. So what would you guys do living wise?