Not sure where to post so here.
So a few days ago I was with my BF at his family's house, they started talking about his cousin's bachelor/bachelorette party. At first it didn't bug me until everyone was broken into groups for the bride and for the groom. Keep in mind I've hung out with all of them for years now but I wasn't invited to any of the festivities; since I wasn't invited I sat alone playing with my phone.. 2 hours passed and I was bored and wanted to leave. I had no input or anything to do there.. So I told my BF I was feeling sick and wanted to go home and that he could stay if he wanted.. He finally caught on as why I felt bad and we decided to leave. When I got home he noticed I was still upset, I finally told him that I didn't really care for going it would've just been nice to have been invited, he now feels shitty about going to the bachelor party because he thinks that it seems like he doesn't care that I wasn't invited but if he declines I know people will think it's because I (the bitchest gf) told him he wasn't allowed to go.
(Side notes: we've been dating 5 years and are 24, and although the bride and I aren't close she is inviting other women who she recently met) I already told him he could go but he thinks it will look like he could care less about me and my feelings. He even decided we wouldn't go to anything (like other places) with them because they isolate me all the time. What should I do? What should he do? I've tried being strong.
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