I am 19, and yes with my young age I should be trying to focus on my self, but I have been through things most adults couldn't fathom to experience... I just want to be a mommy... I am not focusing on dating, I would rather be artificially inseminated, or something! I really want to be a mom! I'm actually preparing my life for that instead of being someone's wife! I just am not. Caring for that now! My family don't agree with me, and think I need to be married before a baby! What do y'all think! What would you do?