Do t judge I need help !

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I am 17 years old , 18 in August and I have a complicated story and I'd appreciate if you don't judge because everyone makes mistakes and I already feel bad about it. Sorry if it's long.

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. June will be 1 year. I have a boy best friend that he knows about. So me and my boyfriend have been in a really bad place and I know that's no excuse but I slept with my best friend twice in one day. It was the day after I ovulated and he finished in me. After he came in me he told me that "if you get pregnant you're gunna get that thing done right" meaning abortion.

I'm afraid of getting pregnant by him and having to tell my boyfriend not only that I cheated but that I'm having someone else's baby. I don't want to get an abortion but I don't want to lose my boyfriend either. My best friend is moving to New York with his aunt for a few months to get his life on track then he's coming back.

Should I keep the baby and be a single mom and hope for the best or get an abortion and go back to normal ? I'm against abortion but I'm just really scared of bringing a baby into this situation.

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That's true you might not be pregnant so don't stress about that part yet, you said you don't wanna lose your bf but you cheated on him twice like no biggie which isn't right. You should be single either way but if you are pregnant keep the baby if that's what you want to do.

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You might not be pregnant. But I think it's wrong to cheat... So either way you should be single

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I wouldn't keep the child. You're young and don't have much to offer a child, and you're not emotionally stable enough to care for others apparently. Which sounds harsh and I do apologize. However, don't look to a bunch of strangers on an app to make such a big decision. Research all of your options: abortion, adoption, keeping it, etc. and decide what is best for YOU.

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i'm sure you understand what you did wrong. it's not right to get an abortion honestly, the baby didn't do anything to you. you brought this on your own. you should tell your boyfriend about you cheating on him and that you might be pregnant. if he stays, you're lucky but don't expect him to stay with you forever. :\ if he leaves, it doesn't matter because you'll have a lovely child who you will fall way more in love with than your boyfriend. 😊

Do t judge I need help !

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