Orgasmmmm

I've had sex looads of times, but i've never had an orgasm. I don't get that much pleasure from getting eaten out or when they rub my clit, and not that much from vaginal penetration either, I don't get it. Cause I love sex, it's just so hard for me to come. Like I've literally tried everything.  I think i reach orgasm when I masturbate, but it doesn't take that long, and I've tried to do the same when I have sex with someone, but it doesn't work. I'm kind of curious of how an orgasm actually feels, so if any of you want to share,that would be nice hahah. And also if any of you have had the same problem or anything, any advice on what I might try to actually reach an orgasm the next time? :DD