High risk HPV detected: long post but need advice and positive vibes

So I had a pap done last May and the results came up positive for HPV 16, which is more likely to lead to cervical cancer than other types of HPV.   At that time, I was going through major custody issues with my kids' dad/my ex-husband and not taking care of myself (drinking A LOT, not exercising, etc).  I was very unhealthy and put on 50 pounds in a year from my bad choices.  Before all the crap went down with my ex, I was a healthy 130, fit, and happy.  So, I put off the colposcopy because I was scared.....then a few weeks later I found out was pregnant.  I am in a monogamous relationship with my SO and have been for over two years.