"Not until you're married"

💁🏻👙🌺☀️🌊 • No
I'm 20, been with my boyfriend (he's 21) for about a year now. My dad has a vacation house in the Virgin Islands and he talked about me and my boyfriend visiting. Well anyways, my whole family claims that we are not allowed to be sleeping together or be together late in the same room "until we're married". Which is kind of ridiculous to me because some people don't even want to get married... How do they know that I do? We've stayed in hotels together, we're likely getting an apartment together SOON, so... We're not even minors. 😂 I'm sorry, but this is all too funny to me because it's stupid. Opinions?