Any tips on getting my SO interested in sex while I'm pregnant?

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My sex drive has been high my whole pregnancy and he just doesn't seem interested in sex.
He'll tell me he has a boner, let me touch it but when I go for more he acts like he is so busy.
I try to not let it get to me personally but it really hurts sometimes. I cry in the bathroom thinking I must be gross to him. 
Any ladies have any tips please?
Anything would help at this point 
Thanks!

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Just reassure him that it's okay and that he's not hurting the baby. Maybe it can be brought up during a doctor's appointment so that he'll see it as  "validated" info?

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Good luck I have had no luck in that department, I told my SO he can't hurt the baby but he's still weirded out by it.

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I don't have that problem.. at least not yet. I'm worried it might be a problem when I'm bigger and baby is moving. But at the same time, I don't really have a sex drive, because I still have morning sickness in my 2nd trimester. So when we have sex, it's the rare time that I feel ok, and I feel bad that it's been so long for my husband. So we had sex last night, and again this morning. Even before getting pregnant, I always have to initiate, because my husband doesn't want me to do anything I'm not in the mood to do. So he waits until I initiate. It doesn't matter how long it's been. I feel bad for him 😂 but I love him and I know if anything ever bothers me, he listens when I talk to him.

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Ha! Just start playing with yourself in front of him - he'll join in 😂 or... just put it in your mouth then get up and sit on it

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Having this issue now :(

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I'm having that issue now. It sucks so bad.

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I have the same problem hi. Like right now. He's mad Bc I came out to lay out on the couch Bc I'm so sick of asking and getting blown off or him saying if we're going to make love let's do it then like its a job.  I try myself to sleep all the time. I've tried multiple times to tell him he's not hurting the baby and that my second drive is high it had been the whole time.  And he says it will go back to normal once the baby comes.  It really hurts trust me I deal with it everyday and I got to bed upset every night. I've never ever felt so unwanted. I'm actually crying as we speak Bc of this. Idk what to do anymore I have so much stress and need to be touched by him and he just acts like I'm being a bitch for being upset or even if it does happen he gets off and then I'm left high and dry everytime.  I really need advice I'm a first time mom and this makes me never want to get pregnant again I feel alone in so many ways. I'm just so sick of being unhappy and I do love him but I'm not feeling like I'm getting much of it back. Please help  someone.

Any tips on getting my SO interested in sex while I'm pregnant?

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