sex problems

I tried to have sex with my boyfriend of 6 months for the first time yesterday,we haven't really done anything sexual before mainly because we are both quite shy people.
I wasn't a virgin but he was...
but when we tried to have sex yesterday,he got on top of me and put the condom on but he couldn't find the hole??? he tried for ages and ages and got really embarrassed and in the end just gave up
I'm too scared to meet him again because I don't want that to happen again,I don't understand why it did,I've never had that problem before????? help !!!!!!! x