Self Confidence

I just was on another topic and there were so many drop dead gorgeous women posting their photos with captions like "I'm ugly" ... "I'm insecure"... "I don't look that great but this is me"... "My dog looks better than me"  "I hate my hair"... And the negativity goes on. There were about a few women that posted their photo with confidence and I was like "yeah finally." Why must we rip ourselves to shreds ??? Why can't you feel unapologetically beautiful in the skin you're in without ripping yourself apart ??? Is it a defense mechanism?? Do you do it because you honestly hate the look of your face or because you think if you talk about yourself first, you'll beat someone else to the punch?? That's awful. Or are you just in search of attention ?? So ppl can say "oh no you're gorgeous.!" Which again is awful. I mean I really don't get why so many women must rip themselves to shreds when it comes to looks. Why do you do it ??? There's only one YOU. Even if you are an identical twin, there's only one YOU. You only have ONE LIFE. Why waste it away feeling miserable about how you look ? It's draining. I challenge everyone to declare all the things they love about themselves. Unapologetically.