My mom...

Mary
Is obsessed with having her first grand baby this August. I know it's all from a good and loving place but it's a little much for me to handle at times. 
She lives 9 hours away from me and is having a hard time living so far away and feels guilty that she had "failed" me because she can't be here to help me all the time. I have never said anything to make her feel that way and she is welcome to come and visit whenever she wants and maybe someday we can live closer together. There's a lot of whining involved because my dad can't afford to whisk her away and bring her down to live here. 
She wants to throw me a baby shower with her friends when I go visit her up north next month. I think it's weird because I don't really know her friends (might have met them once or twice)  and I feel strange accepting or expecting gifts from them. But my mom wants to show me off. I don't want to do it but I think it would make my mom very happy. 
I feel like I am complaining about nice things. I might be overreacting but it just seems too much for me sometimes. I don't know ... Just needed to write down some thoughts.