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If you planned your pregnancy how did you or your SO tell each other you wanted to try for a baby? 
I'm on vacation in Australia right now. The first day we got here I opened my case and realised that had forgotten my pill. I was stressing out completely when my SO came over, put one hand on my belly and said... Please don't stress, I think it's time for you to stop taking them anyway! 
 I'm so happy that he suggested it, we are both 26 and I've been ready for about two years. I wasn't sure he was so I wanted him to be the one to say it without prompting! We are out here for three months visiting family so who knows, when we get home I may be pregnant! In the meantime I've been watching how good he is with his 3 year old niece and it makes me want to jump on him it's so attractive. Pretty sure he knows it's working as well since every time he makes her giggle he just looks over at me with a grin knowing he's getting laid that night! 😂

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Ours was basically the same. He randomly asked if I was still taking my pills, and I said yeah, but I need to order more. He said, eh don't worry about it. And now we are almost 18 weeks along haha!

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The first ever time happened when I was watching one born every minute and I just text him saying "I want a baby" and he replied "let's have one"
Simples haha

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He's known I've had baby fever for nearly 2 years... one morning he just woke up, rolled over and cuddled on me. He said "When you're ready I think it's time to start a family."

I was ready 2 years ago sweets. 😅 It's been a good month now.

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Well my hubby was throwing hints like you "know we starting a family soon once you say I do" I was like whattttttttt haha this was 9 months ago when I said I do...so I decided you know what I want to start a family. But we did have a serious talk because I know he's going to be a good father but he will constantly be away because of the military. I will be 9 weeks tomorrow.

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When we decided to start our family we had been talking about kids and how we enjoy our time together and that we would just know when the timing was right. We mentioned.it so many times that we both were like "why are we still on this subject?"....we realized that we were ready and stopped my BC immediately.

With our second we talked a couple times about more kids right around our daughters 1st bday and he joked about how I wasn't religious on my pills since I started my own business.  Then one day he came home with sex on the brain and I flat out told him that I was ovulating and he said "sounds good to me" and our second was.conceived.

This last time, we had a miscarriage in Feb 2015 after deciding to go off BC in October.  Let things go as they would and ended up pregnant in Nov 2015 and now almost 25 weeks with our 3rd.

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Uh, well, there was no conversation. The first time we made in the new year, he didn't pull out. Afterwards, I said, "you didn't pull out" and he just grinned at me. We had talked about it briefly since our last miscarriage a year and a half ago, but he still wanted to wait until we bought a house. Don't know what changed his mind, but I'm so thankful for whatever it was!

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We talked about it when we got engaged. We wanted to wait until after we were married and have a little time to enjoy being married first. then we decided we wanted to go to Ireland for our honeymoon which we did on almost our one year anniversary. So we said we would wait until after Ireland cuz I didn't want to go pregnant. I wanted to be able to enjoy myself and not be sick and all that 
Decided about a month before our trip that it would be ok if it happened. Got pregnant about 2 weeks later (so tech I did go to Ireland pregnant lol) 
It just kind of came up naturally with getting married and discussing everything

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My husband and I have always wanted a family together and after we got married he kept telling me I wasn't getting any younger 😂 we were married when I was 25 and he was 27! So the month we got married I stopped taking my BC and we found out I was pregnant in February!

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Aww that's so cute!

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I stopped bc because of some health issues with it and was waiting to try something different so I called him from Walmart to see what kind of condoms he wanted me to get and he told me he had thought about it and decided we weren't going to use condoms or me go back on bc. It took 11 cycles to conceive but I'm now 22 weeks! I think like most women I wanted him to say it unprompted!

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